Garyvee分享他的新書所敘述的12+1個情商槓桿，我認為符合「好的全留下」的分享。 Garyvee shares the 12+1 Levers of Emotional Intelligence described in his new book, which I think fits the "Keep all the good" sharing.

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Garyvee分享他的新書所敘述的12+1個情商槓桿，我認為符合「好的全留下」的分享。

Garyvee shares the 12+1 Levers of Emotional Intelligence described in his new book, which I think fits the "Keep all the good" sharing.

Garyvee的新書《情商致勝: 完勝職場與人生的12.5堂課與實戰演練》有提到12個情商槓桿，他認為：當所有人都能認清「軟技能」就是「硬實力」時，無論是世界，還是商業界都會變得更好。然後遵循這個道理行動的人，也會變得更滿足和成功。而「善良的坦率」，則是他後來與我們分享的第13個必備要素。

Garyvee's new book 《Twelve and a Half: Leveraging the Emotional Ingredients Necessary for Business Success》 mentions 12 emotional intelligence levers, arguing that when everyone can recognize that "soft power" are "hard power," both the world and the business circles would get better.  Then people who follow this principle will also become more satisfied and successful. And "well candor" was the 13th essential must-have element he later shared with us.

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好的全留下，壞的都丟掉；

反正死不了，心美最重要。

Keep all the good,

not the bad;

As long as you don't die,

beauty is the most important.

其中我認為所謂這13個特質中，「好的都留下」的有：

1.謙遜

2.耐心

3.善意

4.樂觀

5.感恩

Among the so-called 13 qualities, in my opinion, those belonging to "keep all the good" are:

　1. Humble

　2. Patient

　3. Goodwill

　4. Optimism

　5. Grateful

主要我是認為有些因素比較是屬於個人的，例如野心和信念等；不然，是比較容易誤認為理所當然的要點，我認為是同理、當責和善良的坦率這三點。

Mainly because some elements are more personal, such as ambitions, beliefs and etc.. Otherwise, the others are easier to take for granted, which I think are empathy, responsibility, and well candor.

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另一篇有關於Garyvee分享的影片中，說道 In another video about Garyvee sharing, it says:

「這一切都是我的錯！」

「那很好啊！這代表你完全有能力扭轉一切。當你一味地責怪他人，你就是在向自己承認，你已經完全失去對一切的控制權了。」

"It's all my fault."

"That's great!  This means that you are fully capable of turning things around.  When you're blaming others, you're admitting that you've completely lost control of everything."

我則與他分享 I shared with him:

當人們一味地推錯諉過怪罪他人時，其實，他們在那些當下的自己感到毫無價值，更遑論存在。

When people blindly pass the buck and blame others, they actually feel worthless to themselves in those moments, nothing exist.