【修己揚他/AskSelf】【反轉向上/ReverseUp】
相互對立或評判的言論，只會惡化各位的關係和親友的狀況。這些內斂的思維，才能讓各位快速反轉。我所言不虛且非常實在，日月可鑒，甚至日月都可以從中學到不少。
Opposition to each other or judgmental remarks will only worsen our relationship and the condition of your relatives and friends. These introverted thinking can make you reverse quickly. What I said is true and very real, and the sun and the moon can prove and even learn from it.
Mayor Ko, if I prove something easily, please be sure to share it with others and say a few words less in the future. (As a reward, self-practice, and advanced content for self-cultivation)
【這邊很重要，請多做幾次】先用力想(想的位置在你大腦的中心位置，印象深刻的樣子，了解嗎？)兩三遍：「陳時中應該送他一本我的新書」。接著，我要你再想一遍，但是念頭想到「陳時中應該送他」的時候，改想「n」。你多做兩三次一定能察覺有不屬於你思想的影響力存在的啊！(我猜你之前可能沒好好地做這個測試和感知)
[This is very important, please do it several times] Think hard first (the position of thinking is in the center of your brain, like you feel something impressive, do you understand?) two or three times: "I should send Chen a new book of mine". Next, I want you to think again, but when the thought comes to "I should send him...", think "n" instead. If you do it two or three more times, you will definitely be able to detect the existence of influences that do not belong to your thoughts! (I guess you may not have done this test and perception well before)
以上所有政治人物都應該趕快做，並且用力閉上自己的嘴巴！
All of the above politicians should hurry up and keep your mouths shut!
Also share with 蔡英文 Tsai Ing-wen 賴清德 蘇貞昌 游錫堃 陳菊(花媽) 朱立倫 侯友宜 (侯友宜，你注意你的眼睛樣子都變了，還不趕快做我置頂文章的事情) 鄭文燦 鄭運鵬 Cheng Yun-Peng 盧秀燕 黃偉哲 陳其邁 Chen Chi-Mai 林佳龍 林智堅 林昶佐 Freddy Lim 立法委員 陳椒華 無黨籍彰化市長候選人劉坤鱧 高虹安 壯闊台灣 吳怡農 柯建銘 (柯建銘，請管好自己的嘴巴，趕快做我置頂文章分享給大家的資訊。 https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10160341037584470 ) 劉寶傑 吳淡如 龍應台 - Lung Yingtai 文茜的世界周報 Sisy's World News 中國國民黨 KMT 國民黨立法院黨團 國民黨青年團 民主進步黨 民進黨發言人 民進黨立法院黨團 台灣民眾黨 時代力量 New Power Party 林之晨 Joe Biden President Joe Biden Vice President Kamala Harris Kamala Harris Nancy Pelosi House Speaker Nancy Pelosi The White House Narendra Modi Sadhguru CCTV Asia Pacific
柯市長，我想猜想您是有看到我分享的訊息了。在多方考量之下，取消了輔選行程。我有一些想法分享。
Mayer Ko, I guess that you have seen the content I shared, and after comprehensive consideration, the trip to the auxiliary election was cancelled. I have a few thoughts to share with you.
一、 陳時中 說你可能是學到教訓什麼的[1]。請您學會不要被他人操弄。他人冷嘲熱諷，跟你有關係嗎？無論媒體是否問到他的發言，你都可以回應你的考量和真正的思維，不是嗎？例如，「有鑑於上次大雨，我有請相關部門再針對相關流程做改善與研擬。相較起來，輔選行程的確較不重要，所以我決定留守台北，這本來就是一個市長可以自由決定之事。」
First, Chen said that you may have learned a lesson [1]. Please learn not to be manipulated by others. Does it have anything to do with others being sarcastic? Whether or not the media asks you, you can express your considerations and real thinking, right? For example, "In view of the heavy rain last time, I have asked the relevant departments to improve and develop the relevant procedures. Compared with the auxiliary election itinerary, it is indeed less important, so I decided to stay in Taipei, which is originally a mayor can freely decide."
針對一些他人的意見或評論，各位政治人物都可以回應媒體，「他人的想法和意見，我予以尊重。」難道各位是這麼容易被操弄的嗎？只要我戳你一下，你就要跳腳一次嗎？
For some other people's opinions or comments, all politicians can respond to the media, "I respect other people's thoughts and opinions." Are you so easily manipulated? As long as someone pokes you, will you jump once?
他再繼續講這種言論，就選不上。所以，請你們專注在好的事情上。
If he continues to talk like this, he will not be elected. So please focus on the good things.
二、柯市長，一位好典範的市長，還身兼一位有底蘊的作者應該如何？你真的應該趕快送書給三位台北市參選人陳時中、黃珊珊、蔣萬安，並表達「(例如)這是我從學習時代一直到現在從政的一些管理心法，書中的內容希望和你們分享。如果有任何想法或建議，也誠摯地歡迎與我分享。」
Second, What should you do? A good role model mayor, also be an author with profound background? You really should quickly send the book to the three Taipei City candidates Chen, Huang, and Jiang, and express "(for example) these are some of my management skills from the era of study until now in politics. The content of the book hopes to share with you. If you have any ideas or suggestions, you are welcome to share them with me.”
將管理心法真心地與他們分享，讓他們更能理解你的一些想法。這樣一來，他們不是更能察覺您的一些用心，還能於當選後，更好地銜接台北市政嗎？
Share the management mentality with them sincerely, so that they can better understand some of your ideas. In this way, wouldn't they be more aware of some of your intentions and better connect with Taipei City after the election?
況且，贈書予他們，真誠邀請他們的建議回饋。真正持續收到不同想法和指教，而因此受惠的人是誰？
Moreover, give them books and sincerely invite their suggestions back. Who are the beneficiaries who really continue to receive different ideas and advice?
我是誠摯地希冀您能多些自我抑制，並能主動地自我練習。這對於您太太 陳佩琪Peggy 陳佩琪姐姐在意念關係連接上，有十分大的反轉力量啊！
I sincerely hope that you can restrain yourself more and take the initiative to practice. This has a great reversal power for your wife Peggy in the EN connection of relationships!
之前過往的不良意念就是要讓陳姐姐心性和心智降低，讓陳佩琪姐姐無法如往常一樣協助你抑制發言，讓你不自覺地常有不適當比喻或是講過頭。你沒發現陳姐姐現在連說話都不算流利了嗎？我已經提醒你很多次了，請您務必察覺這一點啊！
The bad EN in the past was to reduce Peggy's mentality, so that she couldn't help you to suppress your speech as usual, so that you often made inappropriate metaphors or over-spoken unconsciously. Didn't you realize that Peggy is not even fluent in speaking now? I have reminded you many times, please be aware of this!
三、你的不適當比喻就在眼前，就是「他(陳時中)沒有出國留過學」，你這樣真的很差勁。我大學聯招全班最高分，但我決定念完大學就不念了，而且還延畢。我看到無數的人根本毫無方向去念碩士和博士。我30歲後才規劃過幾次亞洲國家的旅遊，你是一位醫生還有留過學，有任何地方可以讓你變得傲慢或了不起嗎？ (我只是點醒你這句話有多糟糕)
Third, your inappropriate metaphor is right in front of you, that is "he (Chen) never studied abroad", it really sucks. I had the highest score in the JCEE, but I decided not to go to graduate school after I finished it, and I also postponed my graduation. I see countless people who have no direction at all to pursue masters and doctoral degrees. And I only planned a few trips to Asian countries after I was 30 years old. You are a doctor and have studied abroad. Is there anything that can make you arrogant or amazing? (I'm just reminding you how bad that statement is)
請你看一下 為台灣而教 Teach For Taiwan - TFT 的劉安婷(請將我置頂的文章內容，分享給劉安婷本人和你們的團隊，感謝您們的付出與用心)，是如何描述自己從普林斯頓畢業後，回來台灣奉獻己力的演說啊。(她在更早的演說片段，是說自己只是很幸運有親愛的父母和這些資源啊！)
Please take a look at how Anting Liu from Teach for Taiwan, TFT (Please share the content of the article I pinned with Liu Anting herself and your team, thank you for the dedication and hard work), described her speech when she returned to Taiwan after graduating from Princeton to devote herself to it. (In her earlier speech, she said she was just lucky to have dear parents and these resources!)
(右方箭頭拉下來，有字幕文字檔可參考。我建議可以看前三分鐘，如果你們可以平心靜氣地思考，其實好多政治任務都在為了破碎的餅乾大打出手，真的要趕快改善啊！)
(Pull down the arrow on the right, there is subtitle text for reference. I suggest you watch the first three minutes, if you can think calmly, in fact, many political tasks are fighting for broken cookies, really need to improve quickly!)
我想請教柯市長，SOP和是否有出過留學這件事，有任何關係嗎？這一點，還請你有意識主動地用力讓自己閉上嘴巴啊！(我有我的用意，請你務必這樣做。你自然能察覺讓你胡亂發言的念頭和趨向了。)
I would like to ask Mayor Ko, is there any relationship between SOP and whether you have ever studied abroad? On this point, please consciously take the initiative to force yourself to shut your mouth! (I have my intentions, please do this. You can naturally detect the thoughts and trends that make you talk nonsense.)
四、(分享給 黃珊珊 )如果有人在河堤內，一定有方法可以引導民眾出來，並非用「不關水門」處理。[2]
Fourth, (shared with Huang) If someone is in the embankment, there must be a way to guide the people out, not by "not closing the water gate". [2]
請您要將方法在媒體報導上傳達給大家，而不是光在言論中說有方法啊！像我就只知道走一段路會有一個很高的樓梯，其他還有嗎？當妳協助傳達好的和正確的訊息給大眾，不就在改善現況和貢獻己力嗎？
Please convey what method to everyone in media reports, rather than just saying that there is a method in your speech! Like me, only know that there will be a very high staircase to walk a certain way, is there anything else? When you help deliver a good and right message to the public, aren't you improving the situation and contributing?
另外，柯市長，若有民眾真的不太曉得，那這個SOP本身就有檢討的空間，不是嗎？
In addition, Mayor Ko, if there are people who really don’t know much about it, then the SOP itself has space for review, right?
五、(分享給 蔣萬安 )陳是市政「大外行」，「如果只有口號，無心市政，是沒有辦法解決市政問題的！」[3]
Fidth, (shared with Jiang) Chen is a "big layman" in municipal administration. "If there is only a slogan and no municipal administration, there is no way to solve municipal problems!" [3]
蔣萬安，我只分享給你一個重點，但我會示範給你看，如何運用這個想法【讓彼此都更好】。「利人利己」的事情，要不要做？先做還後做？(雖然只是一個想法，但實際上對你可以有重大的影響)
Jiang WanAn, I will only share one important point with you, but I will show you how to use this idea [to make each other better]. Do you want to do things that "benefit others and benefit yourself"? Do it first or do it later? (Although just an idea, it can actually have a significant impact on you)
「事事反問自己先。就算你能做到，我們要想的應該是如何協助他人更美好，不是嗎？」
"Ask yourself first. Even if you can do it, what we should think about is how to help others be better, right?"
所以，依照這個標準，希望你先反問自己幾個問題。
So, according to this standard, I hope you will ask yourself a few questions first.
1. 我市政很內行嗎？
Am I good at municipalities?
2. 假設陳時中市政是外行的，那我們三位的選舉是場好選舉嗎？
Assuming that Chen's municipal administration is a layman, would the election of the three of us be a good election?
3. 對於市政外行的人，能怎樣「致其婉曲」[4]，協助他變成內行呢？(假設你當上台北市長，這個問題不是一個非常重要的挑戰嗎？)
How can a person who is a layman in the municipality and help him become an expert in "euphemistical and tricked"[4] way? (Assuming you become the mayor of Taipei, isn't this a very important challenge?)
4. (恕我講話直接)立即指出「水門」相關的各處室與部門之前後對應的流程，以及必要評估指標、可能衍生之風險，以及後續應變與救災、維修、檢測和補助政策與相關法規為何。
(Excuse me for speaking directly) Immediately point out the corresponding processes of the various offices and departments related to "Watergate", as well as the necessary evaluation indicators, possible risks, and follow-up response and disaster relief, maintenance, inspection and subsidy policies and related regulations and laws.
如果不能很流暢地回覆我，請你馬上和自己說對不起。請你用想的！「蔣萬安，很抱歉，我應該講話更內斂，並且應該藉此想清楚相關流程的！」(我有我的用意，請你務必這樣用力的想這些字句三遍後，眨個眼，眼睛輕輕閉起來，暫停呼吸三秒)
If you can't reply me fluently, please say sorry to yourself right away. Please think hard! "Jiang Wan'an, I'm sorry, I should speak more restrainedly, and I should use this to think clearly about the relevant precess and flow!" (I have my intentions, please be sure to think these words three times, blink, close your eyes, stop breathing and pause for three minutes.)
柯市長還有所有政治人物，我鼓勵你們全都做這件事情，就是用力用想的，和自己說幾聲抱歉(如上所言)！期望你們逐漸可以察覺自己的意念系統(守護元神)的存在，牠會引導諸位反轉與修復自己的場域。
Mayor Ko and all the politicians, I encourage you all to do this, just think hard of sorry to yourself for several times (as i mentioned)! It is hoped that you will gradually be able to perceive the existence of your own EN system (EGO), which will guide you to reverse and recover your own field.
六、希望各位政治人物，乃至於企業主與各級人員都能意識到自己的言論是否具有時空價值與意義。
Sixth, I hope that all politicians, business owners and personnel at all levels can realize whether our words have value and significance of spece-time or not.
每次談論事情時，是否有更聚焦關鍵問題？是否有協助到他人，或提供自己一個反思的機會？
Every time we talk about things, is there a greater focus on key points and issues? Have you helped others, or provided yourself with an opportunity to reflect?
對於現況，是否更清楚或有進一步的改善？參與其中的人，是否有更理解彼此與願意協助彼此？是否讓整個環境更舒適合宜？
About the current situation, is there more clarity or further improvement? Do the people involved understand each other better and are willing to help each other? Does it make the whole environment more comfortable and appropriate?
相互對立或評判的言論，只會惡化各位的關係和親友的狀況。這些內斂的思維，才能讓各位快速反轉。我所言不虛且非常實在，日月可鑒，甚至日月都可以從中學到不少。
Opposition to each other or judgmental remarks will only worsen our relationship and the condition of your relatives and friends. These introverted thinking can make you reverse quickly. What I said is true and very real, and the sun and the moon can prove and even learn from it.
==祝福與分享 Bless and share==
透過這篇發文，分享這些最重要能指向未來的一些想法，希望能協助各位更有信念地做出一些決定。
Through this post, share some of these most important thoughts that point to the future, hoping to help you make some decisions with more confidence.
1.
歸零學習，以禮待之；
持以尊重，平等視之。
方成分寸心，
點滴入己心。
Return to Zero, Treat with Courtesy;
Be Respectful, Treat as Equal.
Converge it,
Into yourself.
2.
好的全留下，壞的都丟掉；
反正死不了，心美最重要。
Keep all the good,
not the bad;
As long as you don't die,
beauty is the most important.
3.
活在當下；共生共好；
修己揚他，反求諸己。
Living in the moment;
Symbiosis and co-goodness;
Asking yourself, seeking yourself.
==My Facebook and Blog==
部落格更多重要內容(建議以桌機模式檢視) More important content on the blog (recommended in desktop mode):
[1] 2022-10-23 ETtoday新聞雲 柯文哲要送《柯P管理學》 陳時中競辦：收到錯誤教案很可惜 https://www.ettoday.net/news/20221023/2364488.htm
[2] 2202-02-23 ETtoday新聞雲 堤外有人車就不關水門？ 黃珊珊批陳時中「搞清楚再來講」 https://www.ettoday.net/news/20221023/2364387.htm
[3] 2022-10-23 上報 關水門爭議掀藍綠戰火 蔣萬安轟陳時中「市政大外行、大說謊」 https://www.upmedia.mg/news_info.php?Type=24&SerialNo=157164
[4-2] 了凡四訓原文 https://www.6laws.net/99life/lawbook/%E4%BA%86%E5%87%A1%E5%9B%9B%E8%A8%93.htm#_%E7%AC%AC%E4%BA%8C%E7%AF%87__%E6%94%B9%E9%81%8E%E4%B9%8B%E6%B3%95
如前日好怒，必思曰：人有不及，情所宜矜；悖理相干，於我何與？本無可怒者。
又思天下無自是之豪傑，亦無尤人之學問，行有不得，皆己之德未修，感未至也。吾悉以自反，則謗毀之來，皆磨煉玉成之地；我將歡然受賜，何怒之有？
又聞謗而不怒，雖讒燄薰天，如舉火焚空，終將自息；聞謗而怒，雖巧心力辯，如春蠶作繭，自取纏綿；怒不惟無益，且有害也。其餘種種過惡，皆當據理思之。此理既明，過將自止。
(網站的參考翻譯)
譬如以前喜歡發脾氣，就應該想到：每個人都會有短處，這在情理上來說，本來就應該加以憐惜、原諒；若有人違反情理而來冒犯我，那是他自己的過失，跟我有何關聯呢？這本來就沒有什麼可怒的。
還要想到，天下沒有自以為是的英雄豪傑，也沒有怨恨別人的學問；如果所做的事情不能稱心如意，那都是自己的德行修得不好，涵養還是不足，感動人的力量還是不夠呀！
這些都應該自我反省，那麼對於各種外來的毀謗與傷害，都將成為磨練我們、成就我們的助緣；因此，我們要歡喜地接受這種賜教，還有什麼可以發怒的呢？
再者，聽到別人的毀謗而不發怒，雖然這些壞話說得像火燄薰滿天空，也只不過像癡人般地拿著火把，想要焚燒虛空一樣，最後將會自己熄滅、停止的。
若是聽到毀謗就動了怒氣，雖然費了巧妙的心思，努力為自己辯護，那就像春天的蠶兒吐絲作繭一樣，只會將自己纏縛住。所以，發怒不但對自身沒有好處，而且還會有害處。
至於其他的種種過失和罪惡，都應當要依據客觀的道理來認真思考。這種道理若是能夠明白，過失自然就會停止，不會再去違犯。
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